Avana, do you mean you would drop the wife, and pursue the relationship with the GG? Sorry, I'm not thinking too clearly right now.
no i mean if i were married i would not pursue the GG relationship because a marriage is a contract, but if it were not a wife and rather a girlfriend, I'd reevaluate that relationship because a jealous SO can hinder personal growth.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.