..."I have to say I am blown out of the water on this one, you do have an open relationship. Good for you hope it continues to work for you and your wife. "....
We don't own each other and don't try to prevent each other from being their own person either...we do have "special circumstances here as well"...so considering those "defects and limitations" this is the best solution for both....
..."I remember when you started all of this and I was seeing red flags all over, but it seems to be working for just fine so congratulations. Glad things are going well. "....
Oh yeah...red flags all the way down to Florida....a year and a half ago....LOL...to bad it only lasted 10 days....miss the lifestyle down there.....
Neither one of us is looking to fall in love or anything else....
Like I've said a lot has happened since I started dressing....but even more has happened over the past 12 or so years....especially health wise...for both of us...
My wife has been in and out of the hospital a number of times...4 mini strokes...amoung other things....
I'm dealing with two terminal illnesses and doing testing now for the "Big C"...so life is to short not to enjoy it...plus if I'm no longer around she'll have a headstart at moving on with her life...
makes perfect sense to me!!!!
You all aren't aware that we're both bi sexual....her date is with a female....
Mine is with a guy....
As well when we first started dating....she introduce me to my first bi sexual experience...and have dabbled in that area ever since....so this is far from introducing something "new" to the relationship....
In addition, one of the illnesses I have for over 12 years has left me unable to perform as a male....so allowing her the ability to find something "to scratch her itch" from time to time is only easonable....and it works both ways....and has lead to my dressings from my "bi" experiences....so this is all part of a "normal" progression for many many years.....however, the dressing on my part is now intregrated and now something hidden or put away out of site out of mind but a every presence in who were are and what we are....thus the the Topic of this thread.....
OH BTW My wife and i have no secrets between each other....never ,...have never will...
