If u both date others, then why bother getting married?
If u both date others, then why bother getting married?
Simple...
We knew each other for 6 to 7 years....were very good friends to each other....guess we fell in love with each other...in body mind and soul....she here for me and me here for her....and as I started circumstances being I lost my ability to perform as a man due to an illness....though we both still had sexual desires aside from all the other attributes that goes with being in a relationship....
I also find this a bit amusing and mystified that I wrote this tread with the idea of how crossdressing came into the pciture 4 years ago, and where it is now, but everyone seems to be fixated on us dating outside our relationship which we have done even before we got married....and there seems to be a "OMG" response to this....maybe we jsut realized that was something that wouldn't work for us but everyhting else does....so we put aside any insecurities, jealousies and other pettiness that usually won't work in most marriages and worked on thos qualities that would make our relationship successful....after all we're now going on 16 years married, 17 years dating and 23 years knowing each other....so I'd say off hand there IS something to this relationship....
So let me ask you this question....if one aspect of our life is missing and no longer there after we married, but all the other qualities are still there, then should we have gotten divorced???...
