Rianna,
You did read my closing statement in astericks right? Cause I did say I was necessarially saying wispers was fully implying this. As far as men and women smelling differently, Actually those different smells are subconsious and are not truly smells in the normal scent. I think the term is pheremone. Women have different than men yes, but the detected smells are very much alike. This I learned in a biology class, the same class I learned that much of the creeerap that we put up with is social constructs. The male and female are different, but not as much as has been pushed onto us.
My second point was also not directed at wspers, it was directed to those SO that accept but only in secrecy. Do you think Rianna, that that stance really helps anyone?
Wsprs SO, sounded very selfish, and frankly put a black eye onto us CDs or those that vary from the social norm. He was not a good example. But we must avoid the broad brush approach of blaming. I was addressing the common thinking, and much of it I have seen here.