Wsprs, I can not say it enough of how your past relationship and realizations are so similiar to what I have gone through..and as you say, it really has nothing to do with dressing..its the person..the sacrifices and what we allowed to occur..something that as you said, won't happen again I am leary of women at this stage, but in time, I know I will heal and realize its not ALL..it was one.

And also..as you stated, Brandi knows the WHOLE story and your ordeals..so how are others to fully understand without that information..and then add as you state "outspokeness can be taken as bitter"?????? Yet, they are placed against the wall..labeled 'negative' and shot...

The topic is a good one, unfortunately, it seems no gg's who experienced the same are here or may never had been...

I commend you for not just turning your back on all of this.. but I would ask that you consider these two points I'm making in future discussions so someones views are not clouded..