I want to thank everyone for the kind thoughts and suggestions here. It really does mean a lot to me.
The trash is gone, and there is no getting my collection back. It wasn't too terribly costly, as I did not own a large femme wardrobe. The real loss is with the sense of self I'm losing. I know I'm going to have to figure a way to talk to her about this, eventually, as I'm pretty sure this is not just a 'phase.' But not now.
I'm wondering if maybe I could get away with underdressing, just for peace of mind.
Again, thank you all for the kind thoughts. *hugs*
