I've been pondering where I really stand of late and looked around some other CD/transgender sites. Laura's Playground actually does have a listing for gender therapists by state. Its something I've also been thinking about, thinking this might be more than just crossdressing (and it probably is) but I have to wait it out since I need to establish myself at a new job to get any kind of insurance right now. Let's see where that link was...
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.