Quote Originally Posted by Sara99 View Post
I said earlier that when Scott is dressed, I end up feeling like it wouldnt matter if I was there or not. That is such a change from how he is towards me when he isnt dressed when he makes me feel like the most important woman in the world. It is that change in his attitude towards me that I am struggling to cope with.
It takes a while for it all to fall into place, both for him and you.

He could be feeling a bit at odds, being dressed while being with you. One side of him may want to be the guy with you since this is how you've been together so far, while his other side may feel somewhat embarrassed, or she may feel she should be more like a gal-pal friend than a lover when dressed. I don't know any of this, just bringing up possibilities.

Communication is key, and also an ability to be together while he is dressed without having to drink. You don't want to get into that habit.

You may just want to go ahead and snuggle with him while he's dressed and watch a movie? Or would that feel odd to you?

I'm a GG, and it has gotten to the point where I always see the same person, whether my SO dresses or not. And the transitions from one to the other feel so fluid, so seamless.

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