Quote Originally Posted by AllieSF View Post
Why do I offer this alternate scenario? To show that there are two sides to every story and we tend only to get one side here on a forum like this, which leads most of us, including me sometimes, to over assume what is really happening in someone else's relationship. Also, since it appears to me that the MtF husband when he/she states that the there are problems, a lot of people really like to jump down their throats without really knowing the full story, including the SO's point of view.
I absolutely didn't intend to jump down his throat. If you followed my Lying thread at all, you know that's something I really hate to see people do. It's quite possible that your scenario is correct, but rather than the alternative it looked like that was the interpretation that was already taking hold, so I was trying to gently offer a different perspective. None of us know the full story, though, so it's really hard to offer any constructive advice. One always likes to assume that relationships are worth saving. That's not always the case, but I wouldn't assume otherwise based on one angry post. If my wife and I got divorced every time one of us was angry, and remarried when we made up, we could wallpaper our house with the documents.