In the context of this forum I think most married CD's who say they are attracted only to women are simply speaking in general of their sexual preference. Of course we all think a Hot female is Hot. To entertain the thought of what she may be like in the bedroom is not out of the question but that does not mean we take any steps to make that thought a reality. Some do however, probably no larger percentage of CD's than Non CD's
You may be confusing the word Attractive with Sexual Attraction.. Appearance makes lots of women (and things too) attractive. The attractiveness of a beautiful woman can cause one an admiration of or pleasure to see her beauty without creating a sexual lust