Quote Originally Posted by docrobbysherry View Post
Let me repeat my example:
You're out and u see a gorgeous woman and all u can think of is, "OMG! Thank goodness I GET to go home to my SO and NOT to HER"!?
So, u don't even have the private thot that she's; pretty, sexy, or ATTRACTIVE?


In the context of this forum I think most married CD's who say they are attracted only to women are simply speaking in general of their sexual preference. Of course we all think a Hot female is Hot. To entertain the thought of what she may be like in the bedroom is not out of the question but that does not mean we take any steps to make that thought a reality. Some do however, probably no larger percentage of CD's than Non CD's

You may be confusing the word Attractive with Sexual Attraction.. Appearance makes lots of women (and things too) attractive. The attractiveness of a beautiful woman can cause one an admiration of or pleasure to see her beauty without creating a sexual lust