I just watched two Lady Gaga vids. In her vids there are female dancers, male dancers, and Gaga herself. Guess where my fem eyes were focussed. Hint, they were not on the males. LOL
See that is my issue. I don't want to, nor should I have to give up something I like about myself for something men that for lack of a better term, are sheer scum, get every day.
But then again, the women these men get, what kind of mind do they have? What attracts them to males that well, are not terrific. (I am not saying all males are this way, but my eyes have been witnessed to several like this.
I wish people would love who a person is, not what a person is (well that sounds odd coming from a person that has a difficult time with the idea of being with a man....I'm going back to Gaga land. LOL)