My parents? Supportive? Thanks, Sarah, for bringing a smile to my face and a chuckle to my lips.

I have tried to learn from their example - by doing the exact opposite. So far, it has worked well. Still, I'm having a hard time lately. My oldest decided - afther three years of pre-med - that he wants to go and be an Army Ranger. You've seen how skinny I am, right? Well, his nickname growing up was Skeletor. I told him, "Look at me. Now look at you. It's called genetics. Are you sure you want to try for Ranger?" Sigh.

Still, I'm trying to support him. I certainly support anyone who will serve their country in this day and age (and after 30 years in myself, I certainly should! ). Still, as a parent, it's hard.

Would I support him if he said his fondest dream was to be a female exotic dancer? That might be a bit tough. Not to mention convincing his mother. Still, he is my son, and I love him and want the best for him. The hard part is allowing him to find out what it is, and not telling/guiding him to what I think it should be.

Did I answer the question? I think I got lost somewhere.



Kathi