Some of us here are just men who enjoy wearing womens clothing,maybe even some make up or hair. But that is as far as we like to go! Others here are much deeper into CDing ,so deep that they feel they are women and wish to openly express themselves in that manner.
Why drive a wedge between the two? I agree with the OP and I see no reason why others wish to promote, belittle or shame anyone to get out of their closet. It's a safety net for some of us who do not wish to expose our behaviour , I can not understand why this is allowed to continue to happen in this forum. I guess ( just a stab ) the only reason why could be those who allow actions by members to belittle other members could only have to agree maybe due in part they themselfs feel they are women/men and need to tell the world about, it because it's such a fantastic thing ,who knows?
Exposure for some of us is out of the question, we live our lives mostly in male mode and we have no desires of making any sexual idenities changes ..In short ....We like who we are !!