Melody, have you ever considered that when someone says he doesn't have the ballz to do something, he may also mean that he doesn't want to? And for reasons that you can't even think of, since you do not live in his shoes?
Good Lord, it's an expression I've used often and when I see someone bungee jumping for example, I also say that I don't have the cahoots (can't use ballz) to do it. But at the same time, it is something that doesn't appeal to me in the least. Am I not bungee jumping because I'm afraid? NO! I'm not bungee jumping because I can't find anything the least bit redeeming about the activity.
It takes all kinds in this world, ya know?
Why is it so hard for some of the members here who are out, to believe that those who don't want to be out stay in for reasons other than fear?
It is maddening when someone shares how they feel and someone else says they are BSing. How would all of you who are doing this feel if you were called liars?
This conversation is becoming circular.
