Did your crossdressing lead you to think that you are transexual?

[ReineD]

Thanks for your insight, Rianna!

Well I can tell you this for a fact, I rarely mow my own lawn, and I NEVER paint my own bedroom or any other room. I pay other people to do those things. From the time I was eight years old until I finished eleventh grade it was my chore to mow the yard. And we had a decent size lawn. So I hate that. Then my father got me a job one summer painting buildings. The last time I had someone paint the interior of my house the smell of the paint just brings back memories of being out in the hot sun painting. So I hate that.

This is wonderful for those who can afford it, and I'm sure that the women who do all this manual work would hire someone to do it for them if they had high paying jobs too. Unfortunately, this is not the standard of living for the average woman in our society, especially if she is a single mom.

And then there are the millions of married women who are settled in a marriage with average income and who, together with their husbands, do see themselves in more of an egalitarian relationship. Or, they want the bedroom painted, their husband is not available to do this or he is unwilling, so they do it themselves.

So, I can tell you this. When I become a TS, you can know for sure that if any guy is going to get in my panties, he is going to either pay someone to cut my grass or get out and do it himself. Not only that but he's gonna pay for me to get my eyebrows done, my fingernails done and my pedicure. Otherwise he can carry his sorry, good for nothing, jive, raggedy, punk a**! I ain't no Navaho, I'm a Nawlinsho!

Well, I wish you all the best in finding such a prince charming. lol. I'm sure they do exist but unfortunately, nowadays they are far and few between, especially after the average woman is past her prime childbearing years. And then honestly it would be a feat to keep her guy as 'interested' in 'taking care of the little lady' after the marriage has settled past the first flush of passion stage, that is, IF they have the kind of money to keep such standards of living. The average woman plucks her own eyebrows, does her own nails, and shaves her own legs.