Quote Originally Posted by Aprilrain View Post
Ask your self this: Do you want to be a woman at work?, at the grocery store?, in the mall shopping for christmas presents? (for other people not your self!), in the garden? at the auto parts store?, do you want to wait in that ridiculously long line for the bathroom at a concert or sporting event while the men simply walk in pee on the wall and walk out!? do you want to be a woman around your family? your wife? your wife's family?
These are good questions, but another important question is this:

Would you be happy living as a woman with just the changes that HRT produces (visit the TS section to find out), without implants or FFS? Would you be happy going out as a woman in your natural state (post HRT ... just you, but looking slightly more feminine), without makeup, with your own longer hair, and just throwing on a pair of regular women's jeans, a Tshirt, & sneakers to go to the grocery store and being looked on as a woman, yes, but as a regular woman just like the other hundreds of regular women that don't necessarily turn heads?

I ask this because you describe the women that turn your head. Maybe you only notice these women, and not the others? A TS (judging by the things I've read here) is happy being a woman. Period. It's not so much about looking glamorous and well put together all the time.