Oh Reine, it's totally similar.
Gay men reject a feminine man because they aren't generally attracted to femininity and more importantly, they don't like the association. There has been a bit of a masculine backlash over the last couple of decades and a large segment of the population are actually embarrassed by the fems.
A quick scan of Craigslist will show you the most familiar refrain in the personals ads; No Fats, No Fems.
I've been with one or two of these muscle queens though and one thing I've come to believe is this; The feminine gay man is the truth.