Ah, yes. You have stumbled upon a closely guarded secret. MOST people just don't care what you wear.
Of course this isn't really a secret. But it is true. Read it again. MOST people just don't care.
So, if YOU don't care, then what's the big deal? Well, the big deal is that all the fear, guilt, and shame that so many crossdressers carry around in their head is just that. IN THEIR HEAD. It's imaginary. An illusion. A construct built from whole cloth.
Now of course SOME people will care. Your family will care. Your SO will care. Maybe your boss? Maybe your pastor? Well, your boss has an image to protect and a business to guard. Your pastor may mistakenly think that God cares what you wear. But by and large, it's just NOT an issue. The vast majority of people have no problem with a guy in a skirt. We have members on this very forum who have been crossdressing for YEARS with no attempt at pretending to be women. They have been talking about it FOR YEARS right here on this forum. Haven't you been listening? Most people just don't care.
Young men hopped up on testosterone and alcohol can be a problem, especially when in a group of others similarly impaired. But it's really not that hard to avoid this kind of situation.
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