Quote Originally Posted by InShock View Post
I'm feeling slightly attacked here.
I don't blame you. I don't think that it's so much attacked as "over-advised" by a lot of folks with disparate experiences. Most of us are CDers who *really* want to see your CD-GG relationship work. Others have had bad experiences and therefore equate your situation with theirs.

We might give you some insight into how we tick or examples of how other CD-GG couples get along, but ultimately you need to do what is right for you.

I see you have nine posts at this point. Make another one and then PM Reine about joining the FAB Forum. The GGs there might be able to provide insight and advice that better address your situation.