Inshock,
This is great news! Ive been following your thread and sending happy thoughts your way.
There is a plethora of information here that can help you thru understanding the psyche of a crossdresser. The GG's here have a forum group you should join, they help and support the spouses of CDers and Trangendered folks.
From reading your posts i can tell you are incredibly IN love with this man. Communicating in any way you can with each other is the golden key to success in any relationship including one involving a TG person.
My wife and i have been married for 10 years this December, she has know about my crossdressing since about a year into dating. I went through some periods of self denial and self hate from shame for being who i was internally, it led me down a very dark path in life.....without her support and love i would never have been able to pull myself out of depression. Being a crossdresser is an incredibly difficult thing for men to cope with, because of the worlds view of us.
Be there for him, he will need your support in the coming years. If he is comfortable with it, then do your best to a part of his crossdressing in some way. My wife first started by giving me alone time, like you have suggested. Which is good at first, but for me it later felt like it separated us more. Now all these years later we share that time together. We get sitters for our kids and she makes candlelit dinners for us while i get dressed and we have girls movie nights. (and the occasional "Handcuff and porno night")But the point im trying to make is, it is awkard for both of you now. Just comunicate through the awkwardness and down the road in your lives together you will be stronger for it as a couple.
From this statement i know the two of you will do just fine.
Good Luck Inshock, we wish you the best in your new adventures as a Crossdressing Couple
Supporting the Communication,
-Donni-
P.s.
(to the forum members)
There have been responses to this thread that are disheartening to someone who is in emotional distress. As forum member please take care not to inflate the situation by being negative. If you do not have a way to help someone who is asking for it, move on to the next thread. Seriously.
