Hayley;Originally Posted by InShock
Congratulations on coming to your conclusions. It is a treat to hear.
As for your comment that you are healed, I truly doubt that. Well on the mend for sure, but the trauma will take a long time to heal.
Life will never be the same for either of you now. Just another experience to add to the book of your life. File it under good, or not so good as it fits for you.
Many of us are happy to have been here for you. We will stand with you in your decisions in regards to this relationship, as our opinions don't really count. Valid though they may be.
You can request a name change if you feel ready for that here as well.
We hope that your B/F will join us here as well. Once he has 10 posts, he too can request membership in the "boys back room", where he will be able to discuss some of his more difficult feelings and concerns.
May I also suggest that you look around your community to see if there is a crossdressing support group. It may be difficult to find (we tend to be a bit reclusive). Your local LGBT office can help you get in touch if the group is not out in the open.
Thanks so very much for sharing this trying time with us. Hopefully, your lace handkerchiefs did not take too much abuse.
Pat
