Sherry,
The ball is in her court now. Take your time. Let her weigh the "fors" and "againsts".
My love interest (of 2 years). On our first date her JAW WAS ON THE FLOOR when I told her . After a week she called and asked my out on a picnic. After the picnic she say "We can have something READY SPECIAL. I feel a contact with you. I can learn to love you as you are!" I didn't push her, and she went baby steps to total accepting.
Wait and see what her next step is...and....and then....
Em
