Dear fun,
This question is so old it has cobwebs on it.
The answer is:
Women don't try to look like men when they wear pants. They are just women in pants.
Crossdressing men USUALLY try to look like women when they wear women's cothes. THAT'S why society gives them grief.
But really, dear, VERY few people give much of a rat's behind WHAT you wear. Dress nice (not ****ty), be polite, SMILE, and few others will care.
S