I just want to add, both these statements are true. People do notice (when they take the time to look), and most don't care, just as any one of us won't care when we see any stranger that we believe looks out of the ordinary, what ever that might be to us. I mean, people don't get emotionally invested in someone they know they'll never see again.
The mistake, I think, is in many CDers believing they are not read. Very few CDs can pull off making others believe they are GG, especially when there is any form of interaction.






