Can you CD w/o being TG?

[sara.s]

The reality is, there is a variety of men out there, and they do end up finding partners who love them and marry them, and go on to raise families.

These are not baseless stereotypes. You may pick a girl and ask her, Who she thinks is a "solid male" a nerd, a artsy, or Football player?

this leads to a development of all manner or rationalization and scornful beliefs in gendered stereotypes, when in fact, they just need to relax and accept who they are and also realize that we do live in a varied world.

We realize who we are, and also realize that the world is varied... but we don't want to described as who we are not. we don't want to be stereotyped again, we already have enough of stereo types.

Again, I'm going by the thousands of threads I've read here, the pictures in the Gallery, the accounts of how wonderful it is to feel and look and act pretty and feminine.

If women can act rough, powerful, arrogant, dominant and not feel masculine and therefore not crossing gender lines and therefore not transgender.... then similarly, men can feel calm, submissive, patient and not feel feminine and therefore not crossing gender lines and therefore not transgender....
Women probably feel like that because of the position, money power.. and we because of wearing women's outfits.

If position/money power does not change a women's personality so also wearing women's clothes may not change a man's personality.

But you can't say that the majority of the CDers who participate here do not have the goal of crossing the gender lines.

"Gender-lines" is an interesting word.. Women fought hard to cross it, because that's where the jobs, respect, stability and so much more lies.. But its so hard to understand why men would want to cross gender lines.. isn't it?