when I was married, my wife had the audacity to spank or pinch my ass often. When I told her not to do that, she said, "It is MY ass and I can do what i want". Well, alright, we were married, i suppose it is forgivable.
But on the serious side - yeah clubs and bars are kind of gross. You get the drunk guys who think they are Casanova and can grope anything that looks female. That and then you also have the other weirdos - the guys who sit like a statue against the wall, the loud drunk college chick who wants to yell and scream, and the middle age trashy looking drunk woman who slurs about wanting to kick peoples' asses.
But yeah when you live as a woman either on weekends or every day, you find out just how men act. Now me, I guess enough people think I "pass" and all, of course the men don't pay me much attention cause i am not 21 years old nor am I a size 4.