Quote Originally Posted by Asche View Post
What I object to is when people want lump together everyone whose behavior society sees as "crossing gender lines" under labels which imply that that behavior is about gender identity, and I argue that "transgender" is one such label.
The definition says
Transgender: Adjective to describe a diverse group of individuals who cross or transcend culturally defined categories of gender.
However you identify, what you do fits the adjective.