It is important that we are able to define ourselves by what we are rather than by the process of elimination stating what we are not.
Sorry to have to disagree.
It is important that we are able to define ourselves by WHO we are...NOT "What" we are. The most important thing is the character of the person not the label we or anyone else places on that person.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.