Shes not so accepting after all.

[Samantha_Smile]

So, we had the crying wife talk last night. As it turns out, she hasn't really accepted me dressing. For the past 3 years she's been trying to accept it. And, she finally decided that she couldn't do it. She asked me to start looking for an apartment. I said no. She feels like she's holding me back from being who I truly am. I disagree. The last statement this morning was "we'll just have to work through it". Before that there was "You need to move out", "I'll get counseling to accept it", I'll get counseling to quit", and "you can ignore it and I'll hide it". Soooo, unsure of what to do.

Me and mine have recently been in a patch of DADT. Wasnt great. She wasnt 100% comfy with it, we both disguised this with just not talking about it.
It doesnt work.
I know, because we too recently had a weepy conversation, we both knew we couldnt go on not talking about it, hiding it, almost like the lie that was before she ever knew I dressed.
But we reconciled that if there was to be any real future for us, we had to learn to make it a topic we could talk about over our evening meal.
Not have to change channel whenever the topic came up on TV no matter how supportive it's standpoint on the matter. (UK- Corronation Street, My Transexual Summer)

Things are better now, new boundaries were drawn up and were both happier for it.
Separation is not the only way through this, but the other ways are harder.
I wish you happiness

I say divorce her and be happy.

I hope that was sarcasm (which you should by now know DOESNT work in text format), otherwise you may just be the worst example of a human on this forum