@Tracii G: I'm not going to have crossdressing items mailed to me or brought on or anywhere near base. My plan was to wait until after I've been put at a duty station, find a support group or something, another CD, TG, LGBT individual, after I've been at my duty station for a while, and have my things mailed to THAT person to stay with. On weekends when that person is up for it, I'll go off base to do my thing entirely off base somewhere like an LGBT bar.
And question, am I in danger of being noticed just going on a forum like this using my personal computer in my room if I'm on base? I don't know how internet access works and if I'll be on a network constantly where they can/will see everything I go to.