Well fair do's - I'm obviously on a losing wicket here. All I know is that when I'm dressed on my own, after a few hours of getting on with my day I can literally forget I'm dressed up and, if I have nothing I need to do, I can get just as bored as when I'm not dressed. On the (rare) occasions I've spent time dressed while my wife is there, I have remained acutely aware of my appearance the whole time, even when she's pretending she can't see it.