OK, I shouldn't have said "theory". I should have said "question". lol

So if it is simple denial, then why would someone not want to admit they are gay, when they willingly embrace the wearing of women's clothes? How can the barriers break down for one and not the other? Don't forget, we are referring to the self-identified, hetero CDers (who identify as male, who like being male, and who like women), but who feel their sexual orientations change when they dress and only when they dress. We're not talking about TSs or CDers who straddle the line between CD & TS.