Hey you, welcome back (LTNS).
You make very valid points and I am sure that many of the 24/7 TG's and especially the TS's here would agree with you. All the things that many here think are so much fun become rote quickly. Sort of like all the things that one does in daily male life but more of them. I am amazed how many bemoan how their wife or SO doesn't do this or that all the time. And yet in real life they don't put any effort in looking good for their SO (ever wonder why women look at a guy in a suit and their eyes light up? Because that man took time to not pick up an old T-shirt and sweats.) No different than wanting your SO to wear a dress daily. Men who have to wear a uniform every day (suit and tie) often don't go anywhere near that on their time off (and rush to change when they get home.)
So anyway, acceptance. Two way street, no parking, with speed limits. I have often thought one quick way to stop a cross dresser would be to say "Ok do what you want do what you will but you will do it all the time and you won't do it half way". Some here would find that a turn on but most would soon wish they could do what they "want" to do and not what is required. The thrill of getting caught, the thrill of doing something slightly not accepted in normal circumstances. That is really what many here are after. Look at the threads that ask if they made a man's piece of clothing exactly LIKE the woman's would you wear it and how many cry NO because it isn't women's (still looking for that magic list that says this is only for men this is only for women...If anyone has it please post it). It is the thrill and total acceptance kills it for many.
