I see your point, and it isn't all necessarily true. People differ. Just like there are hetero or homo sexual dressers, there is never a dresser in the same situation as the next. I have been told by my wife to go out. I want to share it with her, but can't due to her being pregnant. I don't want her to go into labor and have to deliver the baby as Jessica! THAT would be weird. My wife tells me all the time I need to go out as Jessica by myself to experience it....before going out with her (which doesn't make any sense to me.) I have reasons why I don't go...but that is about to change. Possibly as early as tomorrow. I can't expose why this has taken me so long. Let's just say with a career like mine...everyone knows you...day or night. One slip up, and you're on headline news.
