Things I've learned from this thread:
1. Being bi cannot be context sensitive. If you are bi, you must be attracted to each sex always and everywhere the same. If you are only attracted to men when en femme, you are really gay and in denial. The times you are attracted to women don't count.
2. You can be a sexually submissive male OR you can be transgendered, but you can't be submissive AND transgendered because that would mean you hate women.
3. Femininity and masculinity are NOT socially constructed sexual stereotypes (!!!) but merely the equivalent of sexual identity. If I identify as a woman then any quality I have is femimine by definition as long as it is a "positive" quality. If I identify as a man then any quality is masculine. Otherwise there is no difference. Of course, this only applies to attributes we consider to be positive; "negative" attributes like submissiveness have no gender.
LOL!
