Totally agree! Honestly, I think we can only find the notion of "submissiveness" in a CDer's sexual fantasy. Guys who do not CD don't go around calling their wives submissive. :rolleyes:Originally Posted by Purple8229
I'm a GG, I was at home raising kids for decades while my husband had the career, and I can tell you without a shadow of any doubt that I decidedly DID NOT FEEL SUBMISSIVE! (Was that definitive enough?). We each had our jobs/tasks/chores, things that we each were better at or preferred, we helped each other out and advised in each other's areas of expertise (in other words there was no lord & master/slave relationship) and we were satisfied with the division of labor. Did I get a sexual charge out of feeling, as one poster said above, "weak, used, and dominated"? H*ll no! lol. And I would have smacked anyone who suggested anything of the sort, simply because we had decided that one of us should stay at home to raise the kids, and that person was me because my earning power was less than his.
And I'm in my 50s! Can you imagine how much more equal things are now with people in their 20s and 30s?
Jeez. :p
