Don't fret, Nicole. This isn't really that big a deal. There are a number of ways to obscure one's bulge when wearing womenswear. A full tuck as discussed here is only one of them-- and for me is only really necessary when wearing tight pants or leggings where the crotch area shows. If you wear a reasonably long dress or skirt your only concern is the frontal bulge. You don't actually have to tuck for that.
After your surgery, you'll want to gently experiment with methods of keeping things out of the way. I've no doubt you'll come up with something that will work for you.
Lyric
