You threw out a joke so I will. The difference between a CD and a TS is that the CD is married and the TS is not. LOL Seriously I believe a surprising number of CDs are really TS but for 1000 reasons or excuses (married being the biggest one) they choose not to transition.
Funny thing is that when a CD does get divorced my money is on them transitioning.
Yes of course the married CDs are going to chime in and say I am a happy man and husband. Perhaps they are...... now.........
Katie