ReineD,
It is hard, many of us have responsibilities that we would never ever shirk, and living like this is so defeating and demoralizing it makes me wonder if I am truly crazy. I only wish I could get away with a brow wax, maybe even piercing my ears, but no, just can't do it. But I still want to be me, even if it is in hiding. Life sucks, then you die. By the way, who is Melissa?
Susan