I want to keep dressing and I want to keep my wife. I want to get a sex chance and I want to keep my wife. Everything in between as well.

Sounds to me like ya want everything and a bag of chips. You really have no control over your wifes point of view and actions and you odviously like every crossdresser I have ever met want to escalate your dressing, next thing it will be every day, in the house to out the door, to shaving your body to...............

You expect your wife to go along with this? Come on I mean really.

Katie