What part of Texas are ya in Darlin? I am in the DFW area and have it OK. There is some teasing about being a Yankee but it is mostly in fun. The resources here for the T community are OK, sometimes it can be hard to find specific providers, but most are pretty good. I go out as often as possible, and have never had a problem, but when I traveled through Amarillo, that was a different story. I would give the big cities a 5, maybe a 6, but the smaller towns probably a 2 or 3. Of course in male mode I tend to fade into the background pretty well, and in female I try not to stand out a lot, just my personality..........Stephanie