A few decades ago when I was 21, I told my 18 year old college girlfriend about it. She was totally unfazed and helped me dress and actively participated in it. I was so relieved at the time. The nice thing about 18 year old girls is if they are really into you they will make a lot of allowances. Note: I did wait until we had gotten pretty close before telling her. We broke up a year later but that was not the reason and she never told anyone - she just didn't think it was that big a deal. As I went through life I did find a lot of woman do think it is a big deal so I don't want to minimize the difficulties. Still I have since been with a couple women who seriously like it - including my wife. We've been married for 10 years and she considers my crossdressing a major positive in our lives. So, yes, there is a chance of finding a girl who will love you as you are - all of you.
