I will share something personal on this. It may be harsh, but I work with a few gay men who make wonderful coworkers! Every guy/girl thinks about being with the same sex one time or another. Its how you find out if you like it or not. For the personal part, I have experimented with toys and things in a past relationship where I was treated like a woman while dressed. Every way. This was with a woman. I find the thought of being with a man repulsive. No problems with gay men as friends, but like I tell the guys at work "man, just don't hit on me," as most will make jokes every now and then about me being tall and handsome. For example, I hate coconut. On anything. I wanted to try it, and only took a little piece. Still hated it, put it down and haven't touched it since. My worry is this. Men begin to get aroused at contact while women take a while longer. If he wasn't interested, he should of known when they began kissing. Before going there. Then if he hated it so much, why go back again? He says because no woman wanted him....yet....depression doesn't force you to do that. You lower your standards. You pursue harder. You do something until you meet someone. Switching up sexes because of a breakup? Never heard of it, and will never believe it. Deeper issue at work here.
