I also must say that I don't feel at all that it's just about the clothes. For me it's a clear bigenderism, two applications running on the same database! The feminine perspective for me is a very different perspective from that of my male self.
I think that large change in perspective is a part of what make is work for me and my wife. With Tina being a very different person, she hasn't lost her "man" in any way, but has added a girlfriend.
Back to the original OP...I do think that going into a relationship only with a clear understanding on both sides is essential, and maybe that's what you really are saying: "if it's not plus all the way, rethink getting into that relationship!"
Maybe!
