I have to agree.
In the past I've shared personal things with friends who I thought would be totally cool, turned out they weren't as open-minded as I thought.
Regardless, if the need to come out, outweight the feelings of not, then ultimately you'll do what best suits you. Maybe before spilling all the beans however, you could try to gauge the thoughts of each person on dropping some generalised questions/opnions and see how that goes first![]()