IF you get around to The Trusting Part, and you decide to take a chance and go to his house; remember a simple strategy employed by all rational thinking GG's since Mr. Bell invented his contraption, back in the 1870's.
IN FRONT OF HIS FACE, ask for his HOME phone number, and call your friend with The Number. Instruct that friend to call you back AT THAT PHONE NUMBER in one half hour, and to call you again, an hour after that. If you feel uncomfortable, you can make further arrangements when he/she calls. If he makes an excuse, whatever it might be....don't get caught in a possibly very bad situation, DON'T go to his house. He now knows that you are TRACEABLE! Traceable right to his house! This would hopefully insure your not getting killed. (By the way, we had this happen a few years back at a favored TG Club in Clearwater. She went with him, didn't leave word with anyone, no way to check on her, and he killed her.)
Do face facts, even if not dangerous, he no doubt wants to find a friend to dress up with, and probably make "boom-boom." If your OK with that, aren't concerned about family or repercussions, then it's your decision. But, You can be an acquaintance, you guys can talk, kid around, whatever, and do all those things at A Bar. The "Boom-boom" however, would probably not happen at The Local Watering Hole. Your call, we mearly advise.
Peace and Love, Joanie
