Expect every parcel pickup point to inspect the package. It's their job. The worst blown attempt of trying to keep my purchase a secret from my wife was when JCPenny distribution called about two pairs of women's shoes. She told the guy on the line he wanted to talk to her husband. She handed me the phone. The guy was somewhat perplexed. Of course, the shoes arrived, did not fit, and I had to return them to the counter. I took my pre-school daughter along for comfort and a story the shoes did not fit mommy! Totally stupid. Next time I went to PayLess and bought in person. Fortunately, my wife knew of my cross dressing, but, does want to be involved. Oh, well!
I remember in my community there was a women's clothing store that had a small sign in the window indicating the shop was CD friendly. At least one could shop there without feeling out of place.
