People often say one thing when asked about gay/bi people yet act differently when a member of the family are found to be gay or bi, you can get " I have no problems with gay people" yet they find that they do when it is a member of their family , or you can get " I do not like gay or bi people " yet they find that they will accept it when it is a member of the family , it has this funny way of changing peoples minds when it is close at hand so the only way you will ever really know is when they know .
