Jess, I think you summed it up beautifully. I've met a lot of women over the last two years since I came out of the closet. I've lost track of how many I've shared my CDing with, although it's numerous. Not one has had anything less than an enthusiastic response! No one has even been lukewarm about it. Maybe I'm just lucky? That's a possibility. However, based on my experience alone, I must agree with you that if we really make an effort to be tasteful and carry a good attitude, people like us.Originally Posted by JessHaust
One of my two new friends said she had tears in her eyes after I left their store, and the other said I inspired her. When we cross dress in public, I think younger people and especially women see it as an example of freedom of expression, and even a courageous act in the pursuit of self-actualization. People admire that. I know that women I've met appreciate the trouble I've obviously gone to in order to put together a well-coordinated and accessorized outfit that compliments my body shape, along with attention to good makeup application and feminine mannerisms. They instantly know I'm not just throwing on a skirt in order to shock the masses for attention.
Again, you are correctThe reason for my car plate is that it seemed like a small, easy way to further identify myself to the world. Of course, not many people know what "CD" means, but my plate has caused several questions in the two months I've had it. I proudly explain what it means and once again, I've received all positive responses. I'm not an activist, but I think in small ways I can show people that I'm a nice person who just happens to think of themselves as female and likes to dress accordingly.
If we carry ourselves well and are nice to be around, what's not to like? I think the average Joe or Jane Public deserves more credit than we give them in the acceptance department.
