Quote Originally Posted by MandyGG View Post
I don't really get it either! This is SO MINOR in the vastness of life! But it isn't just clothes! It is this need to express a feminine side, a feminine persona that I should be the only one in the relationship expressing. It isn't often that I feel these things, I felt them much more when I first found out, but they creep up every now and then.

Thank you Mandy! Finally, I believe I am getting a truthful answer. I posted a question elsewhere, but, here's the thought that I believe is the truth. The issue is a perception of sexuality. The female is suppose to be the woman in the marriage. Now I firmly believe all males have some vestiges of female sexuality retained after the sex of the fetus has been developed in the womb. That may be the reason for many of us expressing ourselves through cross dressing. However, that is not the issue. The issue is the perception of a woman as it relates to the standard in a marriage of who is suppose to express female sexuality. If this is the expectation of the GG, how can she relate to her cross dressing husband? And, how can she compete with his cross dressing desires? A woman once expressed to me when she discovered her husband was gay, "If it was another woman, I would be able to compete with her for him! How can I compete with another man?"

Mandy's read on the cross dressing issue is basically the read my wife has on the issue. My wife does not want to compete with another woman for her man, even if that person is her man.